Find Your Space

Find Your Space

For more than three years, I had my usual writing spot, a nearby coffee shop that opened at 5am every day. Escaping the house allowed me to truly focus by avoiding any unexpected meetings with my early-rising child. So, once or twice a week during those years, I would leave the house early and settle into my dedicated time. Then, our family decided to move.

Our new home was in a less-developed area where options for establishments with early hours were scarce. And, to help curb our budget a bit, I decided to forgo my weekly coffee shop trips. Surely, I could get up at the same time and simply write in the living room! Unfortunately, that wasnโ€™t the case. I tried and tried to make it work. I would either write for thirty minutes and fall back asleep or my early-riser would find me and I would spend more time trying to redirect him back to bed or another activity than I would actually getting any writing done.

Finally, after nearly two years had passed, I realized enough was enough. I was losing a part of myself by not writing regularly and it simply had to become a priority once again. Thankfully, some new restaurants had recently opened up nearby, so I was able to finally return to my early Saturday mornings.

As you consider theย whereย of writing, think about a space that would help you be creative and undistracted.

I prefer to write away from home because, as a homeschooling mom, Iโ€™m always there. Everywhere I look, tasks await my attention. Going to a coffee shop gives me a fresh environment more conducive to creative thought where I am able to set aside the to-do list for a few hours. I like finding a spot in a corner away from the heaviest flow of people. Thereโ€™s enough activity to keep me awake during those early mornings, but not so much that Iโ€™m constantly distracted by people-watching.

When thinking about a space to go, itโ€™s also good to consider whether noise, music, or silence are most helpful to you. Take headphones if you need some music to help you focus. It may take a little time to discover what works best for you, but once you find it, youโ€™ll slip into your seat for every appointment with increasing readiness to get down to writing.

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